yeah it been a while since I blogged not that I didn’t miss it ,I did I have just been very busy and distracted . In case you are wondering ,yes he proposed (last year November)and the wedding is this year. so you can see why am still hiding (like anyone cares LoL)

so anywhoo….. lets see if I can still express myself:

OK,so I have this pal (Karl)i met pal through a blind date….. long story short :we didn’t have the chemistry so we did ourselves the ultimate favor and became very good friends . That he was until a few months ago when met him in very unfamiliar territory let me start from the beginning:I told y’all that one of my best friends is gay and through him I have met many other men and women and they always invite me to go to this gay bashes every month(its surprising this is no longer a big thing like before when the location was a secret)…back to this bash so this Friday my gay pal(Josh) insists on taking me to this bash and I agreed to tag along .since I stopped drinking I don’t go out as much but this parties are fun because I entertain myself by observing the faboulosity of outfits worn especially by the men and the boy dramas that happen(believe me no series can match this)so ,am busy chatting and hugging the my friends I glance and see this two guys locking lips and I stare for the whole 2 minutes ….and when they pull apart who do I see? None other than my very homophobic pal Josh!.

After I picked up my jaw from the floor I mingle not sure whether I should say hi and I decide against it and walk around until I “crushed into” Josh at the bar and the expression on his face is priceless….then he goes like “omg! I always knew you were gay!that’s why you didn’t want to go out with me”

Bry: puleezze!don’t flatter yourself…am here with Josh so what are you doing here anyway?

Karl: you caught me on my way out…i didn’t know what kind of party this was..this is my home pub and I didn’t know they tolerated this kind of filth here (yeah right!is that’s why you paid at the entrance?)

Bry :oh ,how come you moved and you didn’t tell me? Karl:you know….jobbo plus I have been have been busy

Bry: oh OK..so I guess I’ll see you kawaida place next week -we go for     Ethiopian once a month

Karl:sasawa we’ll talk .

At this point its very obvious that lunch never happened and we have been having this weird conversations on facebook and chat…he tried to bring up the topic but I brushed him away because I don’t think he owes me an explanation and I guess am pissed at him for telling me I’ll go to hell for being an “enabler” because I didn’t try to tell my gay friends what they were doing was wrong when all this time he was dipping his finger in the cookie jar…such is life.

Later  people.